I guess the time has come to explain a few of the comments I have made lately about all that we are going through these days. I will briefly explain them and then I can expand on any if I am not clear, just ask. :-)
About a month ago is when our non-stop stressful life started, when my husband who is a flooring sub-contractor hurt his back. He is better now, only with some occasional pain still, but it's normal with his type of work to have some pain. The following week I was at dr's offices 3 times with my son for ear problems. We found out that he has some hearing loss in his right ear, but we are not sure why. The ear, nose & throat dr wants to wait and re-test his hearing in 3 months (well 2 now). He said that with children this age it's like being a veterinarian as far as guessing what is wrong b/c they cannot tell you what hurts or why. So for now, we have been trying to speak more to his left side. The dr did say that this should not be impeding his speaking. So we are off to a developmental pediatrician on Dec. 1st to explore if there are any physical problems as to why he is not speaking. Now, he does say some some things but only some of those are actually understandable. Long road my little boy has been through and we will make it down this one as well. :-)
The next week my husband's work van was stolen out of the parking lot of the apartments he was working at that day. He only had a few simple tools with him in the apartment at that point as it was still early in the day. So needless to say they got all of his major tools like air compessor, nail gun, saws, drills... etc. And then to find out we do not have any insurance coverage on any of it, including theft of the vehicle itself. The police did find his vehicle a couple days later but everything was gone... they even wiped his dashboard down and all. Who would of thought... clean theives! They even spray painted a tacky yellow stripe over the red one that was there. So it's like a new vehicle to us... well not really. It broke down yesterday... so not only did it cost us to get it back, from towing, but we had to spend more money yesterday getting a new clutch part.
Last week, (week we got van back), we got an offer on our house! We were thrilled! Until we heard the actual offer. Then they ammended their offer which was worse. But we found some do-able things within it and made a counter. Well after many counter-offers we are completely offended by these people and they know what they can do with their offer. Basically, every time a new offer from them came in they asked for us to do more and we got less money! I'ts not supposed to work that way!
We did get another offer from a different couple last friday, and we quite excited becuase there was no expectations of us to do anything, and it seems like it will be quick transaction as well. That is a good thing. BUT.. their offer was 9k less than what we were asking so we countered that night and are still waiting to hear if they are going for it, countering, or rejecting it, becuase eveidently they went out of town and their real estate agent is not able to get in touch with them. So more waiting...
I think the God must think that I need to work on my patience this last month, becuase it seems that's all we've been doing. Waiting for dr's appt's, or answers to health issues, for good health to return, and for our house to sell to somebody!
Well I think you are all caught up now. I better get back to patiently waiting for now... I will check back in later when I have more answers. :-) Thanks for sticking in there and reading this long post. :-)